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Thursday, June 10, 2010

life...seriously what is it???

They say we learn from our mistakes..so that we don't commit them again in the future...
But there are many occasions in life where there is no replay and it is just a one time affair..and then it is quite a waste even if we learned from a mistake/sin we committed at that time in life...

seriously don't you people think there should be more second options in life?more replays and retakes so that even though we won't attain perfection our life can be etched closer to being happy at times??

and they say life has choices....
and they say all that happens happens for the best...

sometimes not being able to correct those mistakes you did...sometimes being just pushed into shallow deep space just like that...

finally just relating everything to another high profile player in everybody's life known as fate...

Fate..luck....

They say work hard and make your life..you work hard and you don't make it,they say its fate,destiny,pre-written..

could there be anything more contradictory than than those feelings which reside in a human mind at the same time....

why is life so mixed up at times???

chitz...

Thursday, June 3, 2010

a small tale...

Disclaimer:the below mentioned is not a universal truth by any chance..

a boy and a girl marries..marriage fixed and arranged by the parents since the boy and girl are of "MARRIAGEABLE AGE" and nice proposals wont come if they r gone past that milestone age...

3 months down the marriage
any good news??....no...

6 months down the marriage
any good news?? ..no....

an year later??
still no good news??..thts bad...

parents to kids...

what is your problem?
do you guys need to see a doc??
after all the puja n everything we did..
how can dis happen...

girl and boy to parents:

we aren't ready for a child..

parents:
what do you mean?god..what will i answer everybody..how will i face my friends now?guess i am not lucky enough to see a grandchild..

intervening public to girl and boy:

no good news till now?anything wrong with you people?you guys should see a doc...atleast think of your parents...

girl and boy to intervening public:

just smiles..we haven't thought of it yet.

a more open girl and boy to the intervening public:

None of your business..:)

Here the important problems as per the parents here are:
they are answerable to the public,as if it was obvious that it was the public who gathered money for the marriage to happen..
everyone of my friends has a grand child ,n my son/daughter has obviously lost the rat race which is a heinous crime...

The important problems as per the intervening public are
ABSOLUTELY NOTHING..

The intervening public obviously do not have any other job!!!!
the actual problems overlooked:
r the couple ready in all the ways for a baby??
do they want a baby of their own now??

persuasion and emotional blackmailing follows to the core...

finally the baby comes...

th baby arrives..everyone is happy...

girl going for work after a month..

everything going smooth...almost...

again a month passes...

MIL/MOM whoever is in charge of the baby to the girl...

u leave for office daily n come back in the evening late..i have to look after the baby for all this time..i am not getting any younger at all..

girl:but i cant get out early..they wont pay me for nothing...and we now have added financial responsibilities with the baby..

MOM/MIL: so who am I? maid???

a maid/aayah arrives soon to take care of the baby..

grandparents to everyone else:

they don't trust us..otherwise why should they keep the maid when we are here??ha,after all we have done for them.....

Intervening public to grandparents:
yeah..too bad..if they knew they would have these problems,y did they go for a baby?too bad..

Believe me,this happens!!!

even though there are many variations and happy endings,this too does happen....

its a weird world right???





:)

chitz.....